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May 23, 2010

Dads’ home activities proportionate to moms’

Filed under: Co-parenting, Economy, Fatherhood — admin @ 7:14 pm

A new study, based on 800 hours of video footage of dual-earner middle-income families, has been released by UCLA’s “Center on Everyday Lives of Families”. Among the findings are that moms still do more at home than fathers — but much of the difference is based on the fact that mothers return home first after work. The study finds that “during the time that fathers are home, they spend a proportionately equal amount of time involved in activities as mothers.”

The study also finds that fathers and mothers spend nearly-equal amounts of time talking with family members or on the phone (19% of time for mothers and 20% of time for fathers). This may help debunk a myth that men tend to be more silent or less expressive than women. However, the study shows that women still do most of the housework, according to the New York Times. Mothers spend 27% of their time on housework; dads spend 18%; and children spend just 3%.

The study reveals some fascinating information about stress levels in families, the benefits (or lack thereof) of providing allowances to children, and various other facets of modern middle-class American families.

May 3, 2010

Daddy Phone

Filed under: Co-parenting, Fatherhood — admin @ 9:21 am

This new country music video, here, provides a moving and powerful glimpse into the relationship between a nonresidential dad and his young son. The accompanying page from the National Center for Fathering provides some good discussion questions for groups of dads or professionals who work with parents.

The video portrays a father who gives his son a cellphone as a way to stay connected. During their time together, the father and son enjoy playing in a park and bonding closely. The video reminds us that children need their parents to be available to them. And it shows that the emotional bond is a two-way street.

The subtext of the video includes an image of a healthy co-parenting relationship — with the father, the mother, and the mother’s new husband. All three adults show maturity and love for this young boy.

Thanks to country singer Marty Raybon for this loving image of family life.

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